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Resilience


You've Decided You Don’t Want to Play Anymore: How to Tell Your Parents
Hockey has been a huge part of your life for as long as you can remember. The early mornings, the road trips, the practices, and the...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


Dealing with the Realities of Some Players Being More Skilled and Talented Than Others in Junior Hockey
Hockey is a game of speed, skill, and strategy, but it's also a game of opportunity. For junior hockey players, coaches, and parents, one...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Owen Sound Attack’s 2011 Championship Run: What We Can Learn From It
In 2011, the Owen Sound Attack made history by capturing their first-ever Ontario Hockey League (OHL) Championship, securing the J. Ross...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


Curtis Sanford’s Path to Professional Hockey: What We Can Learn from His Career
Curtis Sanford’s journey to professional hockey is a testament to resilience, adaptability, and a relentless work ethic. Unlike...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


Alexandre Daigle’s Hockey Career: Lessons for Players, Parents, and Coaches
Alexandre Daigle’s hockey career is one of the most well-known cautionary tales in NHL history. Once the first overall pick in the 1993...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


Demystifying the Path to Junior Hockey Team Selection: A Guide for Aspiring Players
Navigating the junior hockey team selection process can feel overwhelming for young athletes and their families. With tryouts, skills...

Arthur Irie
4 min read


The Time a Police Officer Came to the Bench I Was Coaching On — In the Middle of the Game
There’s a long list of things you might expect to happen during a hockey game—too many men penalties, line brawls, maybe even a fire...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


The Time I Quit the Team My Dad Was Coaching—With Two Games Left in the Season
When I was 17 years old, I made a decision I’ve spent years trying to make sense of—and, sometimes, wishing I could get in a time machine...

Edward Garinger
7 min read


The Time I Scored Four Goals Against My Old Team (After Getting Cut from the Team the Year Before)
When I look back on my minor hockey days, a few moments stand out vividly—but one above all: the night I scored four goals against my...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Time My Junior Coach Told Me I Was Probably the Least Skilled Player in the League
There are moments in life that never leave you. Not because they’re glorious or triumphant—but because they hit you like a punch to the...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


Can the Underdogs Defy the Odds? Uncovering the Psychology of Hockey Playoffs
I started writing this article in February 2025. In March 2025, an underdog in the League I've been involved in for 13 years beat a very...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


“Hey Ref, There’s Two Teams on the Ice!” - Why I Hate This Phrase – And What It Says About Youth Sports
This past weekend, standing up in the stands rather than in my usual spot alone down on the glass in the corner (partly to sit with my...

Edward Garinger
7 min read


One of My Former Teammates Coaches in the NHL, One of My Former Teammates Coaches in the AHL, and I... Coach in the PJHL
There’s a sentence that’s been rolling around in my head for a while now: “One of my former teammates coaches in the NHL, one of my...

Edward Garinger
11 min read


The Time My Coach Made Me Give My Skates to Another Player Who Forgot Theirs
This is a story I’ve told countless times, and while I can laugh about it now with friends and colleagues, it still speaks volumes about...

Edward Garinger
7 min read


The Impact of Youth Hockey Coaches: Fostering Character Development Beyond the Game
Youth hockey is not just a pastime; it's a vital platform for developing essential life skills. Coaches play a crucial role in shaping...

Arthur Irie
4 min read


How to Disagree with Your Boss’s Boss (Without Losing Your Job)
In hockey coaching, philosophical differences are inevitable. As a coach, you might have a vision for player development, team structure,...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Right Way to Tell a Player They Have Been Traded to a New Team
In junior and professional hockey, trades are an inevitable part of the game. Whether it's about improving team chemistry, filling a...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Way to Communicate Philosophical Differences with Your Boss (Without Losing Your Job)
In the fast-paced, high-pressure world of hockey coaching, disagreements are inevitable. Whether you're an assistant coach questioning...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Right Way to Tell a Player They Didn’t Make the Team
One of the hardest parts of being a hockey coach is delivering bad news—especially to a player who has put in the effort, showed up with...

Edward Garinger
6 min read
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The Time an Opposing Team’s Coach Told Me I Was “A Lying Cheat, Just Like [My] Old Man”
I’ll never forget the day an opposing team’s coach hurled a personal insult at me—calling me a “lying cheat, just like [my] old man.”...

Edward Garinger
8 min read
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