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Ethical Decision Making


You've Decided You Don’t Want to Play Anymore: How to Tell Your Parents
Hockey has been a huge part of your life for as long as you can remember. The early mornings, the road trips, the practices, and the...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Dangers of Early Specialization in Hockey: How to Ruin a Kid’s Health, Development, and Love of the Game—Even If They "Want To"
In youth sports today, the pressure to specialize early is higher than ever. Many young hockey players are urged—sometimes by their...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


The Owen Sound Attack’s 2011 Championship Run: What We Can Learn From It
In 2011, the Owen Sound Attack made history by capturing their first-ever Ontario Hockey League (OHL) Championship, securing the J. Ross...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


How Does Mentorship Impact the Next Generation of Hockey Leaders?
Hockey is more than just the excitement of a game or the rush of victory. It is a rich tapestry of community, values, and personal...

Arthur Irie
4 min read


The Time I Was Kicked Out of a Game Immediately After Scoring a Goal: A Lesson in Passion, Ego, and Growth
It was my last year of minor hockey. You know that time—when you’re not quite an adult but definitely no longer a kid. Hormones...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Time a Police Officer Came to the Bench I Was Coaching On — In the Middle of the Game
There’s a long list of things you might expect to happen during a hockey game—too many men penalties, line brawls, maybe even a fire...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


The Time I Quit the Team My Dad Was Coaching—With Two Games Left in the Season
When I was 17 years old, I made a decision I’ve spent years trying to make sense of—and, sometimes, wishing I could get in a time machine...

Edward Garinger
7 min read


The Time My Junior Coach Told Me I Was Probably the Least Skilled Player in the League
There are moments in life that never leave you. Not because they’re glorious or triumphant—but because they hit you like a punch to the...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


Can the Underdogs Defy the Odds? Uncovering the Psychology of Hockey Playoffs
I started writing this article in February 2025. In March 2025, an underdog in the League I've been involved in for 13 years beat a very...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


“Hey Ref, There’s Two Teams on the Ice!” - Why I Hate This Phrase – And What It Says About Youth Sports
This past weekend, standing up in the stands rather than in my usual spot alone down on the glass in the corner (partly to sit with my...

Edward Garinger
7 min read


The Time My Coach Made Me Give My Skates to Another Player Who Forgot Theirs
This is a story I’ve told countless times, and while I can laugh about it now with friends and colleagues, it still speaks volumes about...

Edward Garinger
7 min read


Ethical Decision-Making: What Would You Do?
Introduction Hockey coaches face ethical dilemmas constantly—whether it’s deciding how to handle ice time, managing conflicts with...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


What Letterkenny Gets Right About Hockey
Since its debut in 2016, Letterkenny has become a cult favorite among hockey players and fans alike. What started as a small Canadian...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


How to Disagree with Your Boss’s Boss (Without Losing Your Job)
In hockey coaching, philosophical differences are inevitable. As a coach, you might have a vision for player development, team structure,...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Right Way to Tell a Player They Have Been Traded to a New Team
In junior and professional hockey, trades are an inevitable part of the game. Whether it's about improving team chemistry, filling a...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Way to Communicate Philosophical Differences with Your Boss (Without Losing Your Job)
In the fast-paced, high-pressure world of hockey coaching, disagreements are inevitable. Whether you're an assistant coach questioning...

Edward Garinger
5 min read


The Right Way to Tell a Player They Didn’t Make the Team
One of the hardest parts of being a hockey coach is delivering bad news—especially to a player who has put in the effort, showed up with...

Edward Garinger
6 min read


Agreeing to Become a General Manager: My ‘Wanna-Be-Jerry-Maguire’ Moment
For hockey players, coaches, and parents, the world of Junior hockey can often feel like an ever-evolving puzzle, with multiple moving...

Edward Garinger
8 min read
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The Time an Opposing Team’s Coach Told Me I Was “A Lying Cheat, Just Like [My] Old Man”
I’ll never forget the day an opposing team’s coach hurled a personal insult at me—calling me a “lying cheat, just like [my] old man.”...

Edward Garinger
8 min read


It’s Not “Only AA,” “Just B,” or “Only House League”: Why Every Level of Hockey Matters
One of the most damaging mindsets in hockey today is the phrase: “It’s only AA,” “They just play B,” or “It’s only house league.” These...

Edward Garinger
5 min read
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